Mary Ruth Delozier
October 1, 1944 ~ January 29, 2008
Services:
A Funeral Service will be held on Monday, February 4, 2008 at 10:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel with Fr. Keith Woods officiating. Interment will be Private.
Visitation:
Viewing/Visitation will be held on Sunday, February 3, 2008 from 2:00 - 4:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, where Prayers will be said at 3:00 PM.
Mary Ruth “Ruthie” Delozier, 63, of Loveville, MD died January 29, 2008 in St. Mary’s Hospital. Born October 1, 1944 in Leonardtown, MD she was the daughter of the late Joseph Alton and Rita Louise Vallandingham Bailey. She is survived by her ex-husband John Wayne Delozier, Sr.; children, J. Wayne Delozier, Jr., of Leonardtown, MD, Bryan A. Delozier of Ridge, MD and M. Dawn Delozier of Loveville, MD; siblings, Karen Rogers of Baltimore, MD, Joseph A. Bailey and Bridgett Abell both of Loveville, MD; grandchildren, Ashley Mattingly of Lexington Park, MD, Amber Delozier of OK, Shyann Delozier of Hollywood, MD (children of J. Wayne Delozier) and Sebastian Yotko of Hollywood, MD (son of M. Dawn Delozier/Yotko and Jason Yotko). A lifelong resident of St. Mary’s County, Ruthie graduated from St. Mary’s Academy, Leonardtown, MD “Class of 1963.” She was a school bus driver for Mother Catherine Spalding School and the Mennonite Community as well as an STS driver. She enjoyed fishing, crabbing, hunting, cookouts, going to restaurants (she loved her seafood she could never get enough oysters or crabs to eat), and even though her job was to drive the bus it was more of a pastime than a job, she loved driving the school bus with all of her heart, all of her children from the schools were like second children to her, and the STS drivers were her second family. You could always count on her for a laugh and a smile, she loved spending time with family, friends, and her dogs Shyra and Gypsy. The family will receive friends on Sunday, February 3, 2008 from 2:00-4:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be said at 3:00 PM. A funeral service will be held on Monday, February 4, 2008 at 10:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Chapel with Fr. Keith Woods officiating. Interment will be private.
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“We will all miss ‘Mom’ Delozier and her indomitable spirit. She was so blessed to have such a loving and supportive family. I know the last few weeks have been so difficult for those who cared for her, but take comfort in the knowledge that you helped make her passage a bit gentler.”
“To the Delozier Family, I am so sorry for your loss.”
“Thank you all for your kind words and warm thoughts, I’ve never been so sad in my life, I will miss my mother more than words could ever say, she was my mother and my bestfriend. I know I will be with her again, and that she is with me and my son always. I am sad she is gone, but I am happy she is no longer in pain and discomfort, I know again one day she and I will laugh and dance, we will hug and kiss we will share stories and joke, she is a part of me forever, and I will keep with me safe the laughter we shared, the fun we had, the love of a mother and daugher as well as that of a best friend. I see her smile and hear her laughter when I close my eyes, she will live on in my heart, and I will never stop talking about her to my son, so he will know just what a beautiful person, a kind soul, his grandmother is.”
“Ruth took my 3 children to MCS School while I was driving a different bus route elsewhere. After years they told me how she always waited for them, since we had a long driveway even though they were suppose to be there waiting for her. They told me what a nice and kind bus driver they had. My route changed to MCS a year later so I was lucky enough to meet this special driver. I will miss your smile and our few minutes of talking when ever we got the chance at MCS these past 14 years. We definitley have lost one of the best School Bus Drivers there has ever been. Psalm 73:26 My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever. God Bless You Ruth and Your Family. Your Friend Always Whom Will Never Forget You. Love Shirley “
“To all of Ruthie’s children, brothers and sisters, John and I, and all my family, wish to express our condolences on the loss of your mother/sister. Whenever I would run into Ruthie in town or anywhere, she was always giving me a big hug and a big, wide smile that lighted her whole face. I am very sorry that she was so ill and that she had to leave us so soon, but Aunt Louise and Uncle Alton are so happy to have her with them in heaven. God bless all of you and I will see you at services. Love, your cousin Ginger”
“God be with you. You will be missed by all of us at STS and Non-Public School Bus Transportation. Our prayers are with you and your family.”
“We live across the road from Ms D, as my daughter, Megan, affectionately called her. Megan rides Bus 6 and it will always be Ms. D’s bus. Her smiling face and friendly wave every morning while Megan got on the bus will be greatly missed. May the memories that you share of her hold forever in your hearts and help you to get through this difficult time. May God bless her with a home in Heaven and bless her family with the strength and courage to see each other through this time.”
“I’m so sorry. Truly a loss to those she leaves behind here on Earth. What a beautiful Spirit Cousin Ruthie is. She is definitely met in good company by our Heavenly Family. All my Love, Franny*”
“Karen, Joe Boy and Bridgett, I am in Florida with Pat. I’m so sorry I will not be able to attend Ruthie’s services, but please know that I am thinking of you all and send my love and deepest sympathy. Aunt Lorraine”
“Dawn Honey, I’m so sorry sweetheart! She is with our loving large family in heaven, I’m sure of it! I can see the smiles on all of their faces as they must have all gathered around to meet her, Uncle Alton in the front. It was truly a celebration I am certain of it Dawn. I stood beside Ruthie at our Uncle Warren’s funeral prayers and I know how much she loved her family; she is where she would want to be if she can’t be here with you. I lost my sister-in-law just a hear ago this month; having the faith that I do, that she is with our Lord and her family who went on before her is what has sustained me through this last year of grief. I hope that your faith is strong and that you will lean on those who love you and let them help you through this period of loss. I will be here, although long distance, for you as well. Karen, Joe Boy and Bridgett, we all know well that what I have said to Dawn is true, don’t we! What a wonderful family we were all so fortunate to be born in to. I share your grief, knowing the hurt that the loss of a sister brings. Ruthie is with my sister and your parents and has taken her place in the “circle” that will be unbroken. I can hear them singing! Love to all of you. Your loving cousin, Patsy”
“Condolences from the entire http://WWW.rednektv.com Family we are sorry for your loss”
“Bryan , I am Thinking of you and your family in your time of loss. My prayers are with you . “
“Wayne,Brian,Dawn,family, Our thought and prayers are with your family at this most difficult and sad time. I have known your mom for many years and she was such a sweat and friendly person. She always had a smile and always talked about her family with such love. Your mom will always be with you because she shared such a great love between you three children. If there is anything we can do for you please call.”
“Ms. D, as we know her, has been a part of my families’ lives for years as the driver of Bus 6 for MCS School. She always had a smile on her face. We will miss her! Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. Dale, Kim, Jake, Chad, and Macy Delahay”
“Mom i miss you love you so very much ,we will get to go crabbing and fishing again. I know you aint gonna miss out on that . But them bluegill in the pond had a bad taste anyhow it was fun catching um though,I know any givin day day in the hot summer sun you would catch 50 or 60 of um and throw half back I never forget that day u wanted me to clean a few i looked in the bucket and u had a baby bass about 8 inches long along with some bluegill u wanted me to clean I laughed so hard. The kids on the bus ask about you each and everyday .Each and everyday id tell um you will be back soon .Now you will be in each of thems heart forever .You are truley and genuily missed by all who have come to be friends with you .You made a positive impact on so many lives in so many diff ways .Your smile and laughs will be carried on forever and ever.You can be rest assured that during the funs times when your not there bodily your spirit will instill apon us to carry on your laughter and love that kept many ppl smiling and hoping and will never be forgotten .Mom just think of what you did for so many people as you passed on your journey to the other side. Because of you i have a brother a sister a nephew and 3 daughters you made so much you left a mark that will never be forgotten Love ,Waynie “
“I will never forget how happy Ruthie was when she found out she was getting a grandson, and how sad she was that she had to work on the day he was born. But she made sure that she got to that hospital to see Sebastian, even if it took, me driving and Erik helping her to the car. She couldn’t stop saying “He’s the most beautiful baby I have ever seen”. It was the happiest I had ever seen her. “
“Karen our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless your family.”
“To the Delozier Family we are so sorry of your loss! She will be missed dropping of my two MCS school (daycare children) as well has her always smileing face and blowing the horn and waving! She will be missed. God Bless you all. “
“Bridgett, I am sorry to hear that Ruthy passed away. I know that she is in a better place now. She’s watching over all of you now! Take care and God bless!”
“Wish I could be with you to offer some sort of comfort during this time. Ruthie was very lucky to have you for a sister. “
“Dear Dawny, I am so sorry that Mom passed away. She was such a wonderful, happy woman. She could always make me laugh and that is a very wonderful gift in itself. It was so good that Mom got a chance to see and hold her beautiful grandson. All I can say is “God Bless Her Hole.” That was the best running joke Mom and I had and it made many laugh including Mom. Please, If you need anything call me. I know what it’s like to loose your Mom. Please know that I love you and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.”
“Im glad that you were able to see and hold Shyann.. She was born early just for that reason.. We love and miss you very much…”
“Wayne,Brian&Dawn, Ruthie was a Wonderful person. Full of Laughter and smiles for everyone she knew. I can hear her blowing the bus horn at me as I was mowing grass. I looked for her each time I was working in our yard. Ruthie really cared about her Loveville neighbors.I feel it was a real pleasure to have known her and to have called her a REAL Neighbor and My FRIEND…Love Ann”
“I loved your Mom’s spirit, her humor and ability to love and live life so fully. What an inspiration to me. She never failed to ask about Brian and how he was managing. She added so much to my life. I know this is hard time for all of you and I will hold you close in my thoughts and workings. Anne and Brian Rutherford”
“Mom, You blessed every life you touched. Thank you so much for touching mine. I’ll miss you so much, and your memory will be in my soul forever.”
“Tex,Brian&Dawnie I am so sorry to hear of your moms passing. She was a wonderful person and had the warmest smile.She will be truly missed. Willie Ridgell and family”
“Sorry for the loss of your love one. Ms D drove the school bus for my son, nephew and niece when they attended MCS many years ago. We lived so far off the road and sometimes when we were late meeting the bus to pick the kids up, she would be on her way to the house to drop them off. Ms D was a very kind an caring person. The kids really adored her. She will be missed by all who have crossed paths with her. Take comfort in knowing that she was a blessing to many.”
“Im so sorry for your loss. We miss you driving bus 543.”
“Wayne & Famiy: I am sorry to have heard of Ruth’s passing. She was a great addition to the team of STS drivers on the evening shift. Be assured that she will be missed. “
” Bridgett,JoeBoy,Karen,Waynie,Bryan and Dawn. I wanted to be with you during your grieveing as I was. I’ll miss her smile and good humor. She never said anything bad about anyone. God will keep soul now.You will have her heart for the rest of your life. . My heart was with you even though I couldn’t get there. I Love you all and hope your sorrow turns to happiness for her. She is home now.Love, Earleen”
“I miss you so much…. I was privileged to have you for a sister. Chance made us sisters, choice made us friends… I love you….”