Patricia Lee Dillow
April 12, 1930 ~ August 14, 2011
Services:
A mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Thursday, August 18, 2011 at 11:00 AM in St. John's Catholic Church Hollywood, MD with Fr. Ray Schmidt officiating. Interment will follow in the church cemetery.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 from 5:00 PM until 8:00 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home chapel, Leonardtown, MD where prayers will be recited at 7:00 PM.
Patricia VanSise Dillow, 81, of Hollywood, went to her Lord and Savior on August 14, 2011 after battling a long illness. She was surrounded by family and close friends at the time of her death. She was born in Washington, D.C. on April 12, 1930. She was the daughter of the late Theodore and Mazie VanSise. She was preceded in death by her husband, Thomas M. Dillow, a life-long resident of St. Mary’s County. She is survived by three daughters, Karan Lee Dillow, Danielle Marie Fields, and Mary Robin McGolrick; and four sons, Thomas M. Dillow Jr., William David Dillow, Richard Paul Dillow, and James Patrick Dillow. In addition to her children, she is survived by their spouses; Peggy Dillow, John Fields, Ellie Ritchie, Barbara Dillow, and Chip McGolrick. There are 15 grandchildren, Steven, Jason, Jaime, Nick, Ryan, Heather, Rachel, David, Sarah, Joey, Jessica, Jack, Katlyn, Natalie and Melanie, and 8 great-grandchildren. She was a loving and generous wife, mother, grandmother and friend. She enjoyed numerous crafts, antiquing, gardening and tending her flowers. As an avid shopper, she always found great bargains and unique gifts for family and friends. She enjoyed overnight trips to Dover Downs and traveling to visit family and friends. The family will receive friends Wednesday, August 17, from 5 to 8 p.m. at Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home in Leonardtown. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. John Francis Regis Catholic Church in Hollywood on Thursday, August 18 at 11 a.m., with interment to follow in the church cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to the Hollywood Volunteer Rescue Squad, P.O. Box 79, Hollywood, Maryland 20636. In closing, the family would like to acknowledge Lisa Wood for the many hours of loving care provided to our mother during her illness.
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“Danielle, John and family. You are all in my prayers. Sorry to hear of your loss. I can’t imagine loosing a mother… I picture her sitting at Jesus’ feet. God bless. “
“Jimmy you are in our thoughts and prayers. So sorry for your loss.”
“Heaven got another angel for sure today – I will miss our long Christmas letters to each other. I have wonderful remembrances of family reunions at Patricia and Tommy’s place. God sure blessed our family with Patricia, but I guess he needed her more now.”
“Pat was one of the finest, loving, and most caring ladies we have ever met. She always made us feel like part of her wonderful family. We never saw her without that special twinkle in her eyes – even when she wasn’t feeling well. We pray that her children are at peace knowing that Pat is now resting comfortably in the arms of God surrounded by Tommy and her many friends. “
“Prayers for the Dillow family; Hollywood won’t be the same without Pat.”
“Tootie, Mickey, Dani, Doc, Sam, Robin and Jimmy, we were so sorry to hear of Pat’s passing and know how hard it must be for all of you to lose your mom. I remember all the good times we had with Pat and Tommy and the whole Dillow family playing cards, eating crabs, or just hanging out; it was always so much fun. We are here for all of you and our prayers are with you at this time. Love Debbie and Bernie”
“Pat was my second Mom and I will miss her so very much — she was a very special lady who always made be feel part of the family. Mickey, Tootie, Dani, Doc, Sam, Robin and Jimmy, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.”
“My thoughts and prayers go out to the whole family. I spent many of my childhood years in the Dillow household. Pat was a wonderful women and will be missed. My love to you all.”
“My condolences and prayers go out to the Dillow Family. So sorry for your loss. Rest In Peace Pat.x”
“We are so sorry that we lost a family member we love so much. She will be remembered for the good times we always had with her. We were glad that we got to see her last summer at her 80th birthday party.”
“My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.Iloved Pat,and thought of her as a second Mom. I am so sorry that I cannot be with the family during this time.”
“Danielle – you and your family are in our prayers. We know how hard it is to lose your mom, but we also know she is in a better place. We miss seeing you and John, glad things are working out for you all in Utah. “
“Mom-mom you will truly be missed. I will miss not seeing you come in to St. John’s and ask me what are you always doing on the floor. I know you are in a better place for no more suffering. Doc,Jimmy,Dani,Mickey,Sam,and Tootie I’m sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. “
“Pat was a part of our family at St. John’s. She will be remembered as a kind, generous individual who dealt with the difficulties of her later years with dignity and courage. She never failed to ask about our children when we saw her at Mass, just like family. She will be missed.”
“St. John Francis Regis, SJ, Knights of Columbus Council 7914 prays for the repose of Pat’s soul, and for her family, that God will grant them healing and peace in this time of grief and loss. Vivat Jesus”
“Pat and Tommy were lifelong good friends. They would deal with everyone and never seemed to pass judgment on anyone. When Richard Herberg and I once decided to wrestle in their backyard to determine who had the most to drink (we were 20 and athletic), Pat put the kids in the station wagon and left. With about 6 of our friends, Tommy sat on the bench, watched and laughed for a good hour plus. When the wrestling was finally over, the friends were gone and Tommy would not let us in the house to clean up, as we were less than presentable. Instead he gave us a pail of water to clean up. I think they both got a good laugh that lasted years. I will miss Pat’s good nature.”
“Pat and Tommy were a wonderful blessing to all who came to know them, especially to the Herberg family.They were always like a family to the Herbergs who arrived in America knowing noone. May God bless Tommy and Pat and their wonderful families. They made a positive difference in the lives of so many. What a blessing to know all of you. I can actually visualize a game of Pitch being played in heaven.——God bless and keep you all. Richard,June,Daniele, and Garrett.”
“TO ALL THE DILLOW FAMILY Our sincere condolences to all of you. What a wonderful lady, always a smile and a hello when you saw her. I remember the Dillow Family always helping at ST John’s when we were kids going to school there. The Dillow Family was like a fixture there. We hope all your wonderful memories will help you through this most difficult time. May God keep you in His care . Wayne and Joan Thompson”
“To the Dillow family- my deepest sympathy on the passing of Pat. I remember growing up helping Allie Bauer, Pat, and my mom, Mary Wall folding the Sunday bulletin, decorating the church at Christmas time with the ceramic figures that were made at Pat’s house and painted by Allie. Oh how the three of them would get together and talk about any and everything. Now they are together again with their husbands enjoying each other. Remember all the wonderful times you had together. “
“To The Dillow Family, You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. Mrs. Dillow was a fine lady, and will be greatly missed by the community as well as her family. Take care and hold your many precious memories close at heart. Tommy and Rose”
“Robin, many hearts are touched by your loss and many thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Wishing you strength and courage and praying you find peace in the memories you cherish.”
“Tootie and family – so sorry to hear about your Mom. It’s such a milestone in our lives. I had a lot of good times at your house during grade school. Funny the things you remember – one day I was thumbing through the books in your living room and there was an inscription in one that read “Your teeth are like stars – they come out at night” – just a silly thing that I’ve remembered all these years and has always made me think of you all with a smile!”
“Robin, I’m so very, very sorry for your loss. You are a loving and caring daughter and your mother will know that forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. “
“She knew we loved her. We know she loved us. She knew we would miss her. There was nothing left unsaid. Pat and John”
“To the Dillow Family: You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Mrs. Dillow and Mrs. Bailey were such good friends that they were both in the hospital at the same time. Now they are in a much better place to continue their friendship.”
“Mikey and Danny, I will always remmember going to your folks place growing up every Sunday after CCD. Your Mom and My Mom would always be drinking coffee. May she rest in peace.”
“~To the Dillow Family~ We are truely saddened for the loss of your mother but hope you can take comfort in knowing she is ‘home’ with your dad and now watching over all of you as you did for her. Find your strengths in her memories for they will stay with you forever. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you all.”
“I remember many a time Mom (Joan ‘Sissy’ Long) going over to get milk from the farm and she also waiting with Pat for CCD to be over. Pat was always a caring and devoted family member and was a firend to all. I know she loved helping at St. John’s Church. God smiled when he brought her home. It is so hard to be sad. She had such a great life because of all of the family and friends she had. “
“Patricia one of my favorite aunts, (but really she was my cousin!!). She and Tommy were the best, the Dillow farm was one of my fondest memories growing up, all my cousins, the barns, the mini bikes, the fun.. I am so thankful for all the memories. Patricia was ahead of her time, so creative, so smart, so sweet, so special.. I know one day we will all have fun in heaven.. God Bless her..your legacy will live on..I will miss you Patricia but you will never be forgotten you touched us all. Love, Dee”
“My prayer’s go out to the Dillow family.”
“Mrs. Dillow was a wonderful woman that gave unselfishly to her family, church and community. She will be missed. Fred and I send our deepest sympathies to all the Dillow family.”
“So sorry to hear of Mrs. Dillow’s passing…I’m sure Aunt Lorraine greeted her with open arms…she is no longer suffering and is now watching you all from heaven…she’s in great company up there..keep her memories close…”
“Dear Dear Dillow Family — It is such a sad day for all of us, we loved Pat very much. Know our family is there for you and yours and we will miss Pat very much. In acknowledgement of your family, you were so loving in your watch over your mom. She was never left for a minute as every family member took turns to hold her hand, talk with her, kiss her cheek and stroke her hair. To be so loved as your passing must have brought her so much peace and contentment. She was so honored as mother and parent. It was truly a gift to be present and a momentary part of such a special moment in all our lives. Sending much love, white light and peace. Jeannine “
“To the Dillow family, we are so sorry for your loss. Mrs. Dillow was a very friendly person and we will certainly miss her. Our prayers are with you during this sorrowful time. Sincerely, James and Elaine (Adams) Wood “
“To all the Dillows. Chris called me with the news of your mother’s passing. I’m so sorry for your loss. When I think of your Mom I think of all the years we came to the house every week to get the bottles of milk with all the cream on top! Your Mom was always so good to us when we stopped by. We will remember her fondly and keep her and you all in our prayers.”
“Sorry for your loss…you are in our prayers”
“Jimmy and the entire Dillow family, we are saddened to hear of the passing of your mom. I had the pleasure of meeting her several times, and she was always the same great lady. “
“My sincere sympathy to the Dillow family on your loss. I only got to meet Pat in the last year but felt I knew her long before that. I heard her mentioned every day by her dear friend and one of my favorite people—Elizabeth Herberg. I know that they are now back together renewing their long dear friendship—minus pain or discomfort. I know the family will miss her greatly but take comfort in knowing that she is at peace.”
“Doc and Ellie and the Patricia Dillow Family…Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you take strength from your Mom’s full and abundant life! Sincerely, Regina Gallia and Jean Ritter”
“Dear Dillow Family: Our thoughts are with you.”
“Iam sorry to hear about your Mother. She was a sweet soul. Iam the daughter of John VanSise DeNeale and Mary Lee DeNeale.Just incase you do not remember me. I know my Brother John and his wife Susan DeNeale send their condolences also. Jayne had called let me know of the event. Love, Joan”
“Jimmy sorry to hear about your Mom, she is in a good place with good people.”
“I think the sentiments of my sister, Jayne Stargel, conveyed a lot of the feelings of the VanSise/DeNeale families in remembering Patricia as a kind and fun-loving soul who naturally created many fond memories for others. May she rest in peace, and may we all celebrate a life well lived.”
“Mickey,Your mom was one of a kind. I know she will be sorely missed. I just came across a piece of pottery she made for my daughter’s birth in 1968. I will never forget her. Beverle Stalcup Grass”
“Micky and Peggy and everyone else in the family I want to to have my condolances. Patricia will be missed. She will be with all of the family that preceed her now and they will wecome her with open arms. She will be missed by all of us left behind.”
“Jimmy, Doc, and family; Sorry to hear of your loss. Your mom was a wonderful lady. She was the glue that held family together. Again, I express my deepest sympathy.”