Russell Kevin "Rusty" Tarleton

russell tarleton

September 6, 1962 ~ May 7, 2018

Russell Kevin Tarleton, 55, of California, MD, died peacefully at his home on May 7, 2018 surrounded by family and friends. Rusty was born on September 6, 1962 to Joseph Reginald and Mary Margaret Wood Tarleton. Rusty attended St. John's Catholic School and Ryken High School. He was involved in baseball and basketball in elementary school and was an alter server at St. John Regis Catholic Church during elementary school. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus. Rusty's happiest times were at Poplar Springs Farm where he worked with his father, leaving high school at the end of each day to service school buses, plant and combine corn, cut and strip tobacco, and tend hogs. He took meticulous care of his farm equipment and, like his father, could keep anything in running order. For him, this wasn't work, it was love. Rusty was a Life Member of the Bay District Volunteer Fire Department. He joined the volunteer organization in 1980 and was an active volunteer for 26 years. Rusty served as Lieutenant, Captain, Deputy Chief, and Assistant Chief during his service. The firefighters quickly became his second family. He spent many hours at Company 3 in Lexington Park and was acknowledged for his dedication, participation in numerous fire and accident calls, and several search and rescue efforts. Rusty served on the committee to establish the Bay District Substation in California, designated Company 9, and enjoyed the flexibility of having this facility so close to his home. He became Deputy Chief in 1992 and was the first Deputy Chief of Company 9 when it was established in 1993. He relished stories of the "old timers" and enjoyed training new firefighter volunteers ensuring that they took proper care of equipment upon return from an active call. Rusty maintained fire department friendships for the rest of his life. Rusty worked for more than 36 years at Chesapeake Shores Nursing Center, affectionately known as The Shore. He could fix just about anything and kept the facility in excellent working order relishing corporate audits and resulting outstanding facilities ratings. This wasn't just a 9-to-5 job for Rusty; he became immersed in every project he touched. Nursing center residents looked forward to seeing him, especially when he brought vine-ripened tomatoes, cucumbers, and other produce from Poplar Springs Farm. Rusty instilled his work ethic and satisfaction in a job well done to his son Travis and nephew Brennan. He was often entertained by their antics as both young men grew up working on the farm. Rusty was known for not mincing words. He had high expectations of family and friends but was often first to arrive if you needed help. Rusty is preceded in death by his parents. He is survived by his wife April Mikeal Tarleton of California, son Travis Russell Tarleton of Mechanicsville, step-daughter Janice Rakes of California, sister Karen Tarleton Garner (John) of Drayden, and brothers Brian Joseph Tarleton (Marie) of St. Mary's City, Dale Gregory Tarleton (Patricia) of California, and Keith Anthony Tarleton (Keri) of Hollywood. He will be missed by many nieces and nephews as well as his dear mother-in-law Barbara Mikeal. The family will receive friends at the Bay District VFD, 46900 South Shangri-La Drive, Lexington Park on Thursday, May 10, from 5 - 8 p.m. Prayers will be offered at 7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Friday, May 11, at 11 a.m. at St. John Regis Catholic Church, 43950 St. Johns Road, Hollywood with Father Keith Woods officiating. Interment will follow at Charles Memorial Gardens, 26325 Point Lookout Rd, Leonardtown, MD. Pallbearers will be Tommy Blazer, Rick Corcoran, Randy Gaskill, Ray Gaskill, Joe Miesowitz, and Jeff Redman. Memorial contributions may be made to the Bay District Volunteer Fire Department, PO Box 1440, California, MD 20619 and Hospice of St. Mary's, PO Box 625, Leonardtown, MD 20650.

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  1. April, I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your husband. Rusty was such a joy and a friend to all. I pray your memories will continue to keep him close to your heart. Love you, Netty

  2. I first met Rusty when I joined BDVFD December 1985. He was a mentor and a great firefighter. Rest in peace brother.

  3. I am saddened to hear of the passing of Russ. He was always such a great person. He put his all into everything he did and never did anything half way.
    Heaven gained a wonderful angel. My deepest sympathy to Russ’s Family. I know he is deeply missed.

  4. I knew Rusty from Bay District when I was in for a short time years ago. He was always pleasant to be around and a good mentor. I am sorry to hear about his passing. April, I know you have many wonderful memories to hold dear close to your heart. He will be sorely missed by many.

  5. Dear Karen, April and Family: Thinking of you during this sad time. “God Bless”.

  6. Doug and Waverley Medley says:

    Dear April,
    Where do I start. Let me begin at the beginning when your beloved Rusty joined the fire department. Little did I know when he walked in the door of the old station that here was a young man who was going to leave his mark on all of us. He jumped right into learning all he could about fighting fires and it didn’t take us long to re3alize just what kind of man we had here. He quickly moved up in the officers ranks and the men he commanded has the greatest respect for him and would follow him anywhere.

    May he rest in peace free from pain wrapped in the arms of our Lord. I love this guy.

  7. April and family – I was trying to remember how long I have known Rusty and I could get as close as my senior year of high school. Rusty was one of those guys that could be serious, make you laugh, aggravate you till you were ready to throw something at him, there for you if you needed a friend or help, and, God forbid, you got into trouble, you just hoped you were in their area because you knew you were in the best hands with those guys. I don’t think a lot of this county quite realizes what they lost this week. The dedication, the knowledge, the mentorship that he has provided throughout these years. While I mourn for our loss and that of yours, I am so happy that he is without pain. God speed, Rusty.

  8. Keith, Karen, Dale, Brian and all the family
    I am so sorry to hear about Rusty’s passing. He was a wonderful guy. I am sure he is with God now and the angels and resting peacefully. My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time

  9. Jennifer Knott-Herriman says:

    I met Rusty when I was working at the nursing home. Rusty was one of those proud county boys who took pride in everything he touched. His genuine kindness towards the people around him was felt by many. May the wonderful memories that you share carry you thru this must difficult time, and know that his legacy will live on thru you.

  10. Jennifer Knott-Herriman says:

    I met Rusty when I was working at the nursing home. Rusty was one of those proud county boys who took pride in everything he touched. His genuine kindness towards the people around him was felt by many. May the wonderful memories that you share carry you thru this must difficult time, and know that his legacy will live on thru you.

  11. April – Rusty was taken from this world much too soon. As you know, he has left a mark on many people and has touched souls around him. He will forever be your angel and protect you. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and these days ahead. Hold on to all the memories that you have and surround yourself with all of your close friends and family. XOXO

  12. April and everyone, I will miss Rusty very much as will everyone who knew him. We use to work together at the nursing home and we would take breaks in his office and out back. I remember all the practical jokes he use to play at work. He had a great sense of humor and could make a work day fun. I Will especially miss him at “Festivus”. Hog time won’t be the same without him that’s for sure.
    I hope God and his Graces are with you all in the days ahead. Love to you all!

  13. Keith and family – you are in our thoughts and prayers. Bay District will miss Rusty as will all others who were fortunate to have him in their lives. If you need anything please don’t hesitate to contact us!

  14. April
    I’m so sorry for your loss. I will miss seeing Rusty on the farm equipment working when I was driving by. He was an amazing person. He is now at peace and God’s new angel. I know Rusty will always be with you. Hugs and Prayers to you and the family.

  15. Karen,

    I am so very sorry to hear of Rusty’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

  16. Wayne and Joanl Thompson says:

    To All the Tarleton Family
    Our most sincere condolence on the loss of Rusty. May God give him eternal rest and help heal his family. May God give you all peace knowing he is with God and his wonderful parents. God Bless you all.
    Love
    Wayne and Joan

  17. To the entire Tarleton Family,
    We were very sorry to hear about Rusty. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

  18. Our most sincere condolences to the Tarleton family. May you find peace and strength in your precious memories of Rusty.

  19. I’m so sorry to the passing of rusty he was a very good man.my prayers go out the family I’m sure he’s with his dad Reggie and his mom. God bless I will surely miss him .

  20. Karen and Family, so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.

  21. Karen and Family, so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.


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