Stephen Guy Vallandingham
Stephen Guy Vallandingham
September 19, 1947 ~ January 20, 2015
Services:
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, January 28, 2015 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church with Father David Beaubien officiating. Interment will follow in St. Joseph’s Catholic Cemetery Morganza, MD.
Visitation:
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, January 27, 2015 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 6:30 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD.
Stephen Guy Vallandingham, 67, of Mechanicsville, MD passed away in Callaway, MD on January 20, 2015. Born on September 19, 1947 in Washington, DC, he was the son of the late Margaret Eleanor Guy Vallandingham and Stephen Lawrence Vallandingham. Stephen is survived by his children; Stephen Davis Vallandingham (Leah) of California, MD, Jessica Maria Vallandingham of Mechanicsville, MD, Grandson Stephen Riley Vallandingham, and Stephen’s significant other Cindy Chamberlain. Siblings; Alice Sophia Vallandingham Bailey, and Lawrence Grayson Vallandingham both of Leonardtown, MD.
Stephen served in the United States Army from 1967 to 1970, earning the Purple Heart while in the Vietnam War. He was a lifetime resident of St. Mary’s County, MD and worked as an Explosive Ordnance Disposal for the Department of Defense. Stephen was a member of the Charles County Corvette Club and was past Vice President of the St. Mary’s County Farm Bureau. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, riding in his corvette, fixing things, and helping others.
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, January 27, 2015 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 6:30 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, January 28, 2015 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church with Father David Beaubien officiating. Interment will follow in St. Joseph’s Catholic Cemetery Morganza, MD. Pallbearers will be; Alvin Kraugh, Bo Hunt, Chris Henderson, Tommy Davis, Dave Tennyson, and Albert Huntington. Honorary Pallbearers will be; Stephen Riley Vallandingham, Jimmy Herman, Joseph Chamberlain, and Tommy Stickel. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to Hospice House of St. Mary’s P.O. Box 625 Leonardtown, MD 20650, Mechanicsville Vol. Rescue Squad P.O, Box 15 Mechanicsville, MD 20659 and or the CJD Foundation 341 W. 38th. Street, #501 New York, NY 10018.
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September 19, 1947 ~ January 20, 2015
Stephen Guy Vallandingham, 67, of Mechanicsville, MD passed away in Callaway, MD on January 20, 2015. Born on September 19, 1947 in Washington, DC, he was the son of the late Margaret Eleanor Guy Vallandingham and Stephen Lawrence Vallandingham. Stephen is survived by his children; Stephen Davis Vallandingham (Leah) of California, MD, Jessica Maria Vallandingham of Mechanicsville, MD, Grandson Stephen Riley Vallandingham, and Stephen’s significant other Cindy Chamberlain. Siblings; Alice Sophia Vallandingham Bailey, and Lawrence Grayson Vallandingham both of Leonardtown, MD.
Stephen served in the United States Army from 1967 to 1970, earning the Purple Heart while in the Vietnam War. He was a lifetime resident of St. Mary’s County, MD and worked as an Explosive Ordnance Disposal for the Department of Defense. Stephen was a member of the Charles County Corvette Club and was past Vice President of the St. Mary’s County Farm Bureau. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, riding in his corvette, fixing things, and helping others.
The family will receive friends on Tuesday, January 27, 2015 from 5:00 PM – 8:00 PM with prayers recited at 6:30 PM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home Leonardtown, MD. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, January 28, 2015 at 10:00 AM in St. Aloysius Catholic Church with Father David Beaubien officiating. Interment will follow in St. Joseph’s Catholic Cemetery Morganza, MD. Pallbearers will be; Alvin Kraugh, Bo Hunt, Chris Henderson, Tommy Davis, Dave Tennyson, and Albert Huntington. Honorary Pallbearers will be; Stephen Riley Vallandingham, Jimmy Herman, Joseph Chamberlain, and Tommy Stickel. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to Hospice House of St. Mary’s P.O. Box 625 Leonardtown, MD 20650, Mechanicsville Vol. Rescue Squad P.O, Box 15 Mechanicsville, MD 20659 and or the CJD Foundation 341 W. 38th. Street, #501 New York, NY 10018.
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“Sorry to hear of Stevie’s passing. He was such a well liked man. Always smiling and always seemed so happy. “
“He was a brother to me. Anyone Steve met was always better off than before they met him. His middle initial stands for “Guy” but just as well stood for “generous”. He was truly as giving person and always brought people together. Our plans were too soon cut short but I’m sure he now has a place on a creek in heaven where the fish are big and the crabs are fat. I truly miss him already but am happy for the time we had him. May God Bless You “
“So sorry for your loss Steve and I went to school together who knew the Lord would call him home so soon Peace to all God Bless “
“Been a long time; sorry to loose another good guy.”
“TO STEVE’S FAMILY, WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR THE PASSING OF OUR OLD FRIEND. WE WILL REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD TIMES AT PENNIE’S ON THE WEEKENDS AND HIS VISITS TO SEE US IN HYATTSVILLE DOING THE WEEK. THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH THE FAMILY. GOD BLESS!!!”
“Sending heart felt condolences to Jessica and family.”
“Jess, Stevie, and Family. You are all in my thoughts. Even though I only met Steve a handful of times, the times were fun! I will always remember him giving me a tour of his new truck. Jess…remember…Superhero. Your Fire/EMS family is here for you. Forever and Always. “
“To Stevie’s Family: My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Remember and Hold your memories close to your heart because that is where Stevie will be….God Bless You”
“Thoughts and Prayers to all Stevie’s family at this time. We were shocked and saddened to hear this. May your memories help to ease your pain.”
“Our sincerest sympathy to Jess, Stevie, Alice and Cindy and all his family and many friends. He was such a special person with a great smile and personality! We have such good memories with him…especially while growing up and as teenagers. May you find comfort in knowing that he touched so many lives and was such a wonderful man. Be assured of our love, thoughts and prayers for you all and if you need anything, we are here for you. May God reward him now and bless you too always.”
“It has been said that, “Wherever a good soul has walked there is a trail of beautiful memories.” Steve was one of those good souls. There will be many trails of memories for us to follow.”
“Our condolences to all of Steve’s family. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time. “
“Jessie, Stevie D, Cindy and Alice; My most heart-felt thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. I’ll always remember Stevie Guy as a positive, happy person. “
“Stevie D., Jessica and family, Chris and I wanted to tell you how sorry we are to hear of your Dad’s passing. Another life taken again at a young age in my group of first cousins when there was so much life to live. There was never a moment when I would see him, especially growing up, that he wasn’t smiling or laughing about something. He had that joking personality like his Dad (Uncle Stephen). Keep those moments close to your heart and remember the good times for it is through those memories that you will find comfort in each day. May the Good Lord give you the grace to find peace and comfort during this difficult time. “
“To Steves’ family, we send our regrets. He was a great and fun loving guy. Our prayers are with you “
“To Cindy and Steve’s Family it is with such sadness that I offer my condolences in your loss, I will have fond memories of time spent with Steve and was so grateful that he came into my friends life when she needed someone kind and thoughtful, I was never with them that they did not appear so very happy and perfect for each other. My prayers are with you”
“I feel honored and blessed to have known Steve and his family. I have been one of many who have been the recipient of Steve’s generosity. I have also been blessed to be on the receiving end of his smiles and love. To each of you; Steve’s family, his children, grandchildren, Cindy and all those who are mourning the loss of this special man, and there are many, I extend my deepest condolences. God bless. “
“Our condolences to all of Mr Steve Vallandingham family and friends what a great person he will be missed and that wonderful smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“We send our condolences for the loss of your father. May you and your family find peace in this difficult time. “
“Dear family of Stevie, I will always remember his smile, and gentle ways. Alice my heart breaks for you my friend. Stevie is in a better place we know, and will be smiling down on all of you. I will pray for all of you, that loved him so dearly.”
“Jessica my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If there’s anything at all I can do for you or your family please let me know. Thinking of you Love Mom Cawley”
“Jess and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. He is your guardian angel. “
“So sad to hear about Stevie’s passing. Words just can’t express the sorrow we feel for the family. You are in our prayers.. “
“To all of Steve’s family members, please expect my humble condolences. I know of few other men in my life so generous with their time and skills. We had a ball working the many years at Stump Neck and I will always be grateful for the many ways Steve helped myself and my Mother “Miss Helen” in fixing up this and that. He was indeed a “Jack of all Trades”.”
“Our thoughts and prayers are sent to Steve’s family and friends. He was a fun loving guy and we will miss him very much. God’s blessings with much Love and Hugs, Scott and Gloria”
“Our prayers and thoughts are with Steve’s family and Cindy at this sad time. Steve was a scholar and a gentlemen in every sense of the word, a fantastic story teller and a true and dear friend that will be missed.”
“Life brings tears, smiles and memories…tears dry, smiles fade, but memories live forever. In your memories may you all find comfort. We have many wonderful memories of him that we will cherish. He was a wonderful and life-long friend and he will be forever missed. May you find love and comfort in each other, your family and friends. In your hearts may you all find the strength to help you through these terribly difficult days. Your heart is where he will always be found. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.”
“To the family of Stephen Guy Vallandingham As you all know I truly admired you father, tremendously. Through the years we have had some very good life conversations. We did not see each other often but when we did it was hard for either of us to walk away. Simply put I LOVED YOUR DAD. Just wanted to let you all know what he meant to us. I know what he meant to you guys. We spoke of it often. I want to share with you all some of the things your father taught me through our conversations through the years. During the basketball years we talked about how sometimes in life you make the right decisions and sometimes you make the decisions right. During our last conversation we talked about how it’s tough to be the man God deemed you to be, the husband they want you to be and the father you have to be, you all were his priority. My heart is saddened for your family. We have lost a good one but you all have lost a GREAT one. I’m going to miss my buddy, our thoughts and prayers are with you all.”
“Steven, Our deepest condolences on the loss of your Dad. If there is anything we can do for you please don’t hesitate to give me a call. Remember your brothers are just a phone call away.”
“Our prayers and thoughts to all of Steve’s family. We sure will miss this wonderful man.”
“”TO STEVE’S FAMILY, WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR THE PASSING …..”
“Jess, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.”
“Jessica, Know that you and your family are in my prayers. Take care”
“A truly great guy who leaves a legacy of true friendship and kindness.Became very great friends since the early 1960’s,thru school years at Ryken,fun times at Pennies,Berts,and everywhere in St. Marys. Always enjoyed going to his family’s home and the great times we had cruising around in his mom’s 57 chevy when he’d talk her into using it.Lots of unforgettable memories of a guy with a very outgoing friendly personality.Never to be forgotten as a true friend and inspiration to us all. “
“Miss Alice & family: I’m sure Stevie was welcomed with open arms by many who’ve gone before him, especially your parents. Wonderful picture of him. Deepest sympathy to you & his extended family. Cathy (Guy)Mattingly & family.”
“My heart is heavy. Steve was a very special friend of mine. Over the years we shared many discussions. Some of them light and easy, others soul-searching and deep. My mother and I wish to offer our deepest sympathy at this very difficult time. Sending prayers to Cindy, Jessica and Steve. “
“My favorite memory of “Stevie Guy” goes back to the 60’s when he was cruising the grounds of St. Mary’s Academy in his ’57 Chevy and giving the nuns a fit! Rest in peace, dear friend. My sincere condolences to his family. “
“Prayers and condolences to the family. A good man and an honorable one. Always liked Steve and have known him for many years. May He Rest in Peace.”
“Our prayers and thoughts to all of Steve’s family. We sure will miss this wonderful man.””
“Our Thoughts and Prayers are with the Family at this time. “
“Steve we are so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Please know that anything you may need, feel free to let us know. You and your family are in our prayers. From your SAIC family.”
“My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends “
“Steve was a lifelong trusted friend. We go all the way back to elementary school at Father Andrew White. I always considered him one of my closet friends, he was one of the most trustworthy people I have ever known. He had a special personality that simply made you feel good by just being around him. I believe he thrived on helping people and his infectious smile would always brighten your day. He was a special man and for all of us who shared his life experience, we were blessed to have known him.”
“To Steve’s family – I was so very sad to hear this news. I haven’t seen Steve in over 40 years, but remember the fun times we all had at Pennie’s and just running around. He was always happy and smiling. My prayers to each of you. “
“Condolences to Steve’s family. Steve was a Very Special Person, He will be greatly missed by many.”
“Jess,Stevie,Cindy and Alice, So sorry for the loss of your wonderful father, brother, friend. God has plans for Stephen, he always takes the best! No more suffering, you have an angel watching over you. God Bless you and let me know if you need anything! “
“Although we only knew Steve for a short period of time, we thoroughly enjoyed his company and extraordinary keen wit. We will remember the great times with him at “The Neck” and we are grateful for his kindness and humor. We offer Cindy and Steve’s family our condolences and prayers and we remain forever faithful that God has a plan!”
“My condolences to Stevie’s family. He was one of those people I looked forward to seeing every morning during our 4 years at Ryken. “
“Mamie Guy’s family send their condolences to Stevie Guy Vallandingham family. pretty may you gather the strength to get through the next few days. Love carol,Rob Richie,Tom,Cathy, Johnny ,Rozanne,Larry,Vicki and Jeff Tedder “
“Steve is in our prayers. He seemed always glad to see us and went out of his way to say something that just made us feel good. We have many good memories of Steve both at work and at play. We honor him for his service to country and to his service to the people around him, may he rest in peace.”
“I’m so sad to hear of his passing! My heart is very heavy,I’ve know Steve since fr. Andrew white , pennies & ect. I could go on & on! He was an angel on earth! And now God has him in heaven! He will truly be missed but no more suffering! Rest in peace my friend!”
“I have many memories of Stevie when I was younger. Always a positive, fun loving cousin to be with. I know he will be greatly missed by his children, grandchildren and Pretty. My prayers are will all of you at this time. Love to all, Sue and Tim Grace”
“On behalf of Dee Holt amd myself: To Cindy, his children, siblings and other relatives, you have our deepest sympathy. We will miss Steve as we are certain you will. To us, a dear friend and great guy, passing much too early. We will miss his friendship, smile and humor, that warmed our hearts, made us feel good and put smiles on faces.”
“Jessica, So sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers and good thoughts to you and your family during this difficult time. “
“To Stevie’s Family. My sincere thoughts and prayers go our to you during this difficult time. Stevie was such a great person and one of my oldest friends. We share many school day memories that are some of the best times we’ve had.”
“Much respect and my condolence to the family. Steve worked at Stump Neck with both my father and I. He kept me laughing with all the many stories he would tell. He will be truly missed, but I appreciate the time I spent with him here on earth. It is said ones work never cease, for GOD has many assignments for you in heaven. I know Steve has a few stories for the Angels. “
“My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time. Stevie was such a great person and friend. May God wrap you in His love and provide you with comfort.”
“Jessica and Stevie-D, I was so sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.”
“Alice and family. So sorry to hear of the passing of your brother. I will keep you in my prayers.”
“Stevie-D & Jessica.. May the Good Lord give you peace and strength during this difficult time. We love you guys. “
“Jessie & Family, We send our sincere condolences on the loss of your dad! We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers! Tommy & Rose “
“I know the God of love and mercy has wrapped His arms around Stevie and welcomed him home. May all the wonderful memories of Stevies life continue to comfort Stevies family and friends. RIP my friend —Gene Drury”
“Our deepest sympathies on the passing of a warm and wonderful friend. Our hearts ache for your loss. We will miss him tremendously and remember him always as we look out our window and see the boat and water that he loved so much. Greg and Pam Horne, Lighthouse Lane”
“Jessica, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. “
“I am Stephen’s mom and my heart just broke when I heard the news. My heart felt condolences to you all. “
“Steve was an old friend.sorry to hear of his passing. I would like to pass my condolences on to the family.RIP Steve”
“To all of Steve’s family, we send our heartfelt condolences. We just found out today about his passing. Steve was a great man and will be missed by all who knew him.”