Virginia Thompson Lacey, affectionately known as “Ginny,” age 63, of Avenue MD, passed away on August 11, 2026, after a brief illness.
Ginny was born on September 17, 1962, to the late Erma Joy Thompson and late John Briscoe Thompson of Hollywood, MD. After graduating from Leonardtown High School in 1980, Ginny pursued a fulfilling career as an insurance agent before retiring.
In 1998, Ginny married Donnie Lacey. Together they shared 28 beautiful years of marriage, building a loving home and raising numerous dogs together. Ginny loved to go camping, listen to music, and go to bluegrass festivals.
Ginny was known for her quick wit, generous heart, and gentle spirit; she loved to spend time around a campfire, preferably with a poodle in her lap. She was happiest spending time with her cherished dogs and horses and being in the home she created with Donnie in the good ole 7th District.
In addition to her parents, Ginny was preceded in death by her brother, John “David” Thompson. She is survived by her devoted husband, Donnie; her sister, Brenda Thompson Bond (Paul) of Towson, MD; her niece, Vicki Cantrell; her nephew, Broderick; and six great-nieces and nephews.
Giny’s legacy lives on in the countless memories she created, the love she shared so freely, and the lasting impact she made on everyone fortunate enough to know her. Though she will be greatly missed, her enduring love for family will remain in the hearts of those who loved her forever.
The family will receive friends on Wednesday, September 2, 2026, from 9:00 AM to 10:00 AM in the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home, Leonardtown, MD, where a funeral service will be held at 10:00 AM in the funeral home chapel with Pastor Matthew Tate officiating. Interment will follow at Joy Chapel Methodist Church Cemetery in Hollywood, MD. Serving as pallbearers will be Brenda Lacey, Janet Pettersen, Doris Woodburn, and Vicki Cantrell. Honorary pallbearer will be Donna Miedzinski.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be directed to the following:
Tunnel to Towers Foundation
https://dogood.t2t.org/give/320847#!/donation/checkout
A Community that Shares (ACTS) P.O. Box 54 Bushwood, MD 20618, https://buy.stripe.com/3csfZr8is6P8gcUfYY
Condolences may be made to the family at www.mgfh.com.Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.
Services
Visitation: Wednesday, September 2, 2026 9:00 am - 10:00 am
Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home
41590 Fenwick Street
Leonardtown, MD 20650
(301) 475-8500
Service: Wednesday, September 2, 2026 10:00 am - 11:00 am
Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home
41590 Fenwick Street
Leonardtown, MD 20650
(301) 475-8500
Interment: Wednesday, September 2, 2026 11:30 am
Joy Chapel Cemetery
44260 Joy Chapel Road
Hollywood, MD 20636
(301) 373-2500
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Charities
The family greatly appreciates donations made to these charities in Virginia "Ginny" Thompson Lacey 's name.






Rest easy sweet Ginny. ♡ Tracey
The sweetest girl I ever knew , the most beautiful smile, was always willing to help anyone. May she go straight to the gates of heaven, to be with her Lord !
Rest in Peace, Ginny🙏
Love, Gloria & Ronnie
Ronnie & Becky Trossbach
We were so sad to hear of Ginny being sick and then of her passing. She was a sweet and gentle woman. Donnie, you and Ginny made a wonderful couple . We will lift you up in prayer as you go through this time
Of grieving.
She was a nice lady and kindhearted.
Dearest Donnie
Our most sincere condolences on your great loss of Ginny. Ginny was one of the sweetest and nicest people anyone could ever know. Our thoughts and prayers to you and all your family. I know how much you loved and took care of the love of your life. May God grant you peace and may all your wonderful memories help you through your loss. May Jenny rest in peace.
Love aqnd prayers
Wayne and Joan
My dear sweet Ginny, my insurance lady goes back to when I met Jimmy Brown, she always took the very best care of us, always ahead of what was getting ready to happen, and informing us. That was 1981. We became friends almost immediately. I actually loved her dearly, was so happy when she found Donnie, he was her world, and I can say she was his. Love you too Donnie. In my older age I have to admit I am actually crying as I write this. Ginny, I will miss you truly, my friend. I know you are in heaven with our Lord Jesus Christ, because if you aren’t, no one has a chance to get there! Love Ginny.
I hope your memories of all the good times will get you through this.
Hugs and prayers to her family and friends.
Love, Bonnie
So sorry to hear Ginny passed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.