William Earl "Billy" Vallandingham
December 31, 1959 ~ January 5, 2025
William Earl “Billy” Vallandingham, 65, of Clements, MD, died suddenly on January 5, 2025, at his home surrounded by his family.
Born December 31, 1959, in Leonardtown, MD, Billy was the son of Joseph Wilbur Vallandingham, Sr. and Mary Moonyeen Graves Vallandingham. He was a lifelong resident of St Mary’s County. MD, living on the Vallandingham Farm.
Billy is survived by his loving and devoted mother, Mary Vallandingham, and two siblings, Dana Russell (Willie) and Lisa Estevez (Steve), and, as close as a brother, Mark Allshouse (Janie). He was preceded in death by his father, Joseph Vallandingham, Sr. and two siblings, Wanda Farrell (Joe; deceased) of Compton, MD and Joseph Vallandingham, Jr. (Tere) of Clements, MD.
Billy graduated from Chopticon High School and studied carpentry at the Tech Center, building homes in the local community. Billy worked hard with his family on the farm, especially while growing tobacco. His physical strength was like no other in the family; his nephews still remark about his incredible strength.
Billy was a member of the Tractor Club, attending most of the meetings and events, and assisting with the tractor pulls. He never met a stranger and was always happy. He could converse with anyone and told many jokes. Billy loved riding his gator and visiting local members of his community.
Billy’s greatest love was his family. He loved family gatherings and was always concerned about the progress of planting and harvesting crops on the farm. He always enjoyed it when his great nieces would visit and watch TV with him in his room and discuss his collections of various items and family pictures. He enjoyed the Washington Nationals and Green Bay Packers, rarely missing any of their games. In his later years, he developed an interest in game shows, Law and Order, MASH, and Little House on the Prairie.
Billy was a devout Catholic. He watched the Catholic Mass daily on TV followed by the recitation of the Rosary with Sister Angelica. He had a strong faith and would always pray for anyone in need of his prayers. Billy was kind and generous, offering anything he could to always help others. We are confident in faith that upon his sudden death, God met him with open arms along with the many family members, friends, and neighbors who have gone before us in their redemption.
Family and friends are invited to attend visitation at Our Lady of the Wayside Catholic Church, Chaptico, MD on Wednesday, January 15, 2025, from 9:00 AM to 11:00 AM, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00 AM officiated by Father Chip Luckett. Interment will follow in St Joseph’s Catholic Cemetery, Morganza, MD.
Serving as pallbearers will be Patrick Russell, Chris Russell, Daniel Estevez, Bailey Johnson, Brian Allshouse, Kevin Allshouse, Steve Sanchez, and Josh Johnson.
Arrangements provided by the Mattingley-Gardiner Funeral Home and Cremation Services, P.A., Leonardtown, MD.





My codolence’s to all of the family Billy was a gentle soul. He had a smile for everyone and angel for sure. Extra prayers for his Mom (Nan) , to many heartaches for this Lady to endure .I will always remember Billy riding up an down Pincushion on his Gator with the music turned up high and a big smile on his face , he loved music and sang like a lovely little bird . God Bless Him. Diane ,Wayne, David, and Cindy
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My thoughts and prayers are with Billy’s family and friends during this time of sorrow. May the many wonderful memories that you created and shared with him comfort you in the days ahead. I will miss seeing him on his Gator riding up and down the roads. Rest in peace Billy.
Lisa and family; I’m so sorry to hear of Billy’s passing. We graduated HS together; he was such a nice guy. Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this time.
Mrs. Vallandingham and Family, I’ve known Billy since grade school and we’ve been friends ever since. Sherry and I along with Billy would study the Bible together and share stories of the “old days”, his love for the County Fair,the family’s farm, his Mom’s wonderful cooking and oh he loved his family, especially his Mom. I will miss our phone chats and me scolding him for”cussin”. May God’s tender mercies of peace of mind and comfort be with his Mom and family. In Christ’s Love, Darlene Yorkshire
Ms. Mary and All of Billy’s Family members. Condolences to each of You. Billy was quite often a Saturday/Sunday visitor to my kitchen on that Gator you knew who was coming. His smile was warm and Friendly at all times. May He now Rest In Peace with other Family members and Dear Friends.
With Love and Prayers. Elizabeth ANN Bowles
Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time May Our Heavenly Father look over you Dana,Lisa,and Aunt Mary and the entire Vallandingham family May Our Heavenly Father await Billy with open arms 🙏🙏🙏 Jeff and Kathy Guy Kent co md